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Born: 17 March 1930, Iona Crescent, Glasnevin, Dublin, County Dublin
Entered: 08 October 1947, St Mary's, Emo, County Laois
Ordained: 31 July 1961, Milltown Park, Dublin
Final Vows: 02 February 1965, Rome, Italy
Died: 11 November 2020, Sydney, New South Wales, Australia

Left Society of Jesus: 10 December 1976

Father, Cornelius, was a Land Commission Inspector. Mother was Agnes (Monks). Family lived at Seatown Place, Dundalk, County Louth for a period until Conn was aged 5.

Third of four boys with two sisters.

Early education was at St Pat’s, Drumcondra, he then went to Cistercian College Roscrea for one year. Then he went to Coláiste Mhuire, Parnell Square, Dublin. In his Leaving Cert he got a Dublin Corporation scholarship and a new Government scholarship for University at UCG.

1947-1949: St Mary's, Emo, Novitiate
1949-1953: Rathfarnham Castle, Juniorate, UCD (BA)
1953-1956: Berchmanskolleg, Pullach, Germany (GER S) studying Philosophy
1956-1958: Belvedere College SJ, Regency
1958-1962: Milltown Park, Theology
1962-1963: Sentmaringer Münster, Germany (GER I) making Tertianship
1963-1965: Collegio Bellarmino, Rome, Philosophy at the Gregorian University
1965-1966: St Louis MO, USA (MAR) teaching Philosophy
1966-1976: Milltown Park, Lecturing in Philosophy
1973-1974 at Regis Toronto, Canada (CAN S) sabbatical and Berchmanskolleg, Kauylbachstr, Munich & Copenhagen, Denmark

In April 1976 asked for a short “leave of absence” with a view to asking to be laicised and dispensed from Vows. Granted 10/12/1976

Address on leaving, Sandymount Green, Dublin, then Clifton House, Monkstown Road, County Dublin and then Ennafort Park, Raheny, then St Mary’s Road, Ballsbridge, and then Clifton House, Monkstown again. In 1977 he was working with Gaeltarra Eireann and living at Dangan Lower, Galway. Married Pat (Paddy) Stokes, an Australian, in December 1977. They emigrated to Australia in 1979, and worked at St Aloysius College, Sydney. Taught in Belvedere Junior School, 1999-2000 and then returned to Australia where he worked at St Ignaius College, Riverview, Sydney.

Address 2000 & 1991: Carabella Street, Kirribilli, New South Wales, Australia

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A eulogy for Cornelius Patrick O’Donovan (17 March 1930 - 11 November 2020)
Shane Hogan, former Headmaster, St.Ignatius College, Riverview
21 November 2020

We are here to celebrate the precious life of Cornelius Patrick O’Donovan’s, or ‘Conn’ as he was more affectionally known.

Conn was an immensely special person to a great number of people from vast walks of life. From a young Irish lad in a big catholic family to a dynamic Jesuit, his adventurous and influential life in Australia is one worth remembering and celebrating. I pray these words are befitting of Conn and the extraordinary legacy that lives on in his family and friends.

In 2003 I was given a book by Daven Day SJ when he was Provincial. Its title was Heroic Leadership. It was an attempt by the author, an ex-Jesuit, to explain why the Jesuits had survived for the past 450 years while empires and successful corporations have fallen by the way side in that time. He put it down to 4 characteristics that he believes have served the Jesuits over that time: self-awareness, heroic deeds, ingenuity, and love.

Does each of these principals not sum up and epitomise this beautiful man’s character and personality and explain how he had such an impact on each person’s life that he touched.

Conn was born on 17 March 1930 in Dublin. The keen-eyed among you will have noticed the significance of this date – it is surprising he was not called Patrick Cornelius! As the second born male, Irish tradition states that he would be named after his paternal
grandfather and father.

His father was the Land Commissioner Inspector at this time but was famously behind the barricades at the Dublin General Post Office, shoulder to shoulder with Collins, Clarke, Connelly and McDermott, in the Easter Rising of 1916. Conn was very proud of this fact.

Conn had his Secondary education at Roscrea College, Tipperary for one year, and spent the remainder at Colaiste Mhuire, Dublin – an Irish-speaking Christian Brothers School. He entered the Society of Jesus on 8 October 1947, joining the Jesuit Novitiate at Emo, near Portarlington, where he spent two years of spiritual formation. In the Novitiate he was encouraged to read widely and to develop an interest in music and the arts, a passion he maintained throughout his life.

Following his time in the Jesuit Novitiate he travelled to Rathfarnham Castle where he studied for four years at the University College Dublin. An exemplary student, Conn pursued a demanding course, taking four subjects in Science and Mathematics. While he certainly could have obtained an impressive degree in Science, Conn’s heart remained in the realm of the humanities, and at the end of his first year, he switched to a degree in Latin and Irish. He would, of course, obtain First Class Honours. From here, Conn travelled to Germany to study Philosophy and upon commencement, greatly impressed the demanding German Jesuit professors, who promptly marked him as someone set to become a specialist in Philosophy.

Conn spent the next two years teaching and perfecting his craft at Belvedere College, Dublin, where his interest and ability in sports came to the fore. He was an excellent teacher, popular with the students and possessed an effortless and kindly control in the classroom and on the playing field. He then moved to Milltown Institute of Theology and Philosophy for four years of Theological Studies. It was Milltown that had a decisive impact on Conn, in large part due to his association with Philip McShane, with whom he forged a personal and intellectual friendship, one that would influence not only the other, but a whole generation of students of Philosophy at the Milltown Institute. His interest in philosophy deepened and matured over these years and the expectations of his German philosophy professors were further realised. After his final year of formation - his tertianship - Conn attended the Pontifical Gregorian University in Rome where he obtained a Doctorate in Philosophy which he promptly put to use at the Jesuit St. Louis University in Missouri.

Conn returned home to Ireland where he taught Philosophy for 10 years. As ever, he was popular with colleagues and students, being urbane and gracious as he was. With his Milltown friend, Philip McShane, the pair established a philosophy course grounded in the teachings of the Canadian Jesuit Philosopher, Bernard Lonergan. This decision, however, was not without controversy and painful conflict. The modernisation of religious life was under heavy scrutiny at the time of the change, following the second Vatican Council. Although unknown, many believe that this series of conflicts in the 1960s were what caused Conn to leave the Priesthood and the Jesuits. Conn and the Jesuits remained passionately and eternally in a “benign and mutually appreciative relationship”.

Conn met the love of his life, Paddy, sometime after leaving the Jesuits. Paddy was an Australian nurse whom Conn met while she was travelling through Ireland. Conn was besotted with Paddy. Anything that she wanted, Conn was prepared to deliver. The two
become inseparable and shared many crazy adventures. His immense love for Paddy endured until her passing in 2003. A beautiful send-off was held for Paddy at St Canisius in Potts Point, arranged by Conn’s dear friend, Steve Sinn.

Conn arrived on the doorsteps of St Aloysius College in January 1980. He was looking for a job, as were a number of others who have been part of Jesuit education in Australia for the past 40 years. The first time I met him, Conn was sitting outside Father Bruce’s office waiting to go in and get our classes for the year. At Aloysius, Conn was an immediately hit with staff and students (and Jesuits). He played staff football on a Friday afternoon for many years. I did not realise how old he was at this time, probably 50 or close to it, he was easily one of the best players on the field – a great goalkeeper. Off the field, Conn could also hold his own with a drink.

Conn was an exceptional Latin teacher, Latin being one of eight languages Conn had been taught or taught himself to speak. He was also an exceptional Year Coordinator, earning the love of his students whom he loved in return. One of the reasons for this mutual respect was due to the fact that Conn could not bring himself to use the strap as punishment. He opted instead for a slower, arguably more cruel method, to talk them to death! If this did not work, he would refer them to his assistant, Neil Mushan, to sort out matters more… directly.This discipline method did not work when Helen Ephrums became his new assistant, as she also loved the boys to death.

Conn’s time at Aloysius is wonderfully remembered in comedian Ahn Do’s popular novel, The Happiest Refugee, where Conn’s passion and commitment to fair play saw him rest Ahn late in a Basketball game when Ahn was desperately trying to get to 30 points to win a new pair of basketball boots. When Conn was informed of his accidental actions, he was reported to have said, “Jaysus! Why didn’t you tell me earlier you daft eediot! Ahn, next time out, you’re on!” I can hear him saying it! With his right hand on his forehead.

When I first knew Conn, he was living at St Ignatius’ College in the old Infirmary. After that, he resided at Pearl Beach and travelled each day to St Aloysius is his green Morris Minor. He also for a time lived in a plush flat in Bellevue Hill, however the only piece of property he owned in his life, was an old church in the country which he used as a holiday house. Finally, Conn moved to Riverview and lived in a cottage by First Field for many years, a very happy place with classical music always drifting in the air as you approached.

On his departure from St Aloysius in the mid ‘90s, Conn travelled home to Ireland for a number of years. Paddy had convinced him she wanted to go home to Ireland to live and do a cooking course in France. Ever supportive of her dreams and true to his enduring love, whatever Paddy wanted, Conn was always prepared to deliver. While in Ireland, Conn taught at the Jesuit Belvedere College, Dublin, but both he and Paddy soon realised that with the Celtic Tiger enveloping the nation, Ireland was not the place and home they thought it to be.

Conn returned to Australia, commencing at St Ignatius’ College, Riverview, where he would join a number of us who had left Aloysius to start anew. After Paddy died, I asked Conn to come and live at Riverview. With this, a new amazing stage in his life began: that of a Jesuit, mystic and gypsy. Conn did possibly his best and most influential work while at Riverview. As mentor and confidante to the Headmaster, as well as Latin teacher, Conn spent many an afternoon wasting his time on Jennie Hickey and I - who never completed her homework and was inattentive at times - as he tried to get us through the Year 7 syllabus … year after year.

Conn’s impact on the formation of young Ignatian men and on those he worked with can be summed up by the outpouring of emotional responses on social media on hearing the news of his passing. Among the many moving tributes, here are two such examples of the widespread and lasting influence of Conn’s character.

A wonderful person and a great and enthusiastic 4th XI soccer coach! Profound intellect, humility, insight, depth of faith, simplicity of life, ease of finding joy… Conn’s gift for critical, honest thinking and seeking after truth made a big impact on me and many. I am moved to gratitude for his life. May Conn rest in peace. – James O’Brien
A dear friend and teacher who helped educate the whole person - a wonderful teacher of Ancient Greek who, in the course of teaching the subject, taught you also a good deal of literature - particularly the Irish poets - Latin, Gaelic, German, Philosophy and Theology. A great football coach who insisted on character and fair, firm play. But more, just a caring shepherd of people on their way into broader life. My favourite lessons in Greek were when he would turn up with a poem of Seamus Heaney’s,

because the story of the Trojan wars was also the story of all human struggles. Requiescat in pace, Conn. – Dominic Kelly

At this point, can I especially thank, from all of Conn’s friends and family, the care and love shared by the dozen or so girlfriends who spoilt him and gave him a graceful entry to heaven over the past months and were true friends to the end, especially you Christine, you have been an angel by his side.

In the Book of Isiah there is the story of the passing of a close friend of Cicero and when his wife asks him why do you weep so?

“The earth is poorer” said Cicero. “It has lost a good man, and we cannot afford it”

The earth will be a poorer place without Conn, at a time when good men are hard to find. Conn touched each and every one of us and has left us with memories we will cherish forever. Conn loved his Irish heritage, and in particular Irish poets. Conn and Paddy attached this poem to a birthday card they sent me in 2002. When you read it, hear Conn’s words in your head and heart.

https://lonergan.org.au/conn-odonovan-2/

27 November 2020

In Memory of Cornelius Patrick O’Donovan (17 March 1930 – 11 November 2020)

Our colleague and friend, Conn O’Donovan, was a regular attendee, participant and presenter at our biennial Australian Lonergan Workshop. He had a particular expertise and interest in the philosophy of learning.

He will remembered as a passionate and compassionate man, a lover of his wife Paddy, a scholar and a teacher,. He will also be remembered for this love of music and Lindt 85% dark chocolate.

His funeral service can be viewed (until 20th May 2021) at: https://www.FuneralVideo.com.au/CorneliusODonovan. A hard copy of the eulogy by Shane Hogan, former headmaster at St.Ignatius College, Riverview is available to download here. This includes a little of life-story.

In Lonergan circles, he will be remembered an educator, a reformer of philosophy and theology courses and a translator and interpreter of one of Lonergan’s important contributions to theology.

Educator

Throughout his life, Conn was an educator at various institutions – Belvedere College, Dublin; St.Louis University, Missouri; and Milltown Institute of Theology and Philosophy.

Over the past 40 years, Conn taught at St.Aloysius College, Milson’s Point and St.Ignatius College, Riverview (in Sydney, Australia). He is particularly noted for his course on “Wonder about Wonder: an introduction to philosophy” which aimed to have students grasp their own native wonder.

Reformer

In the early 1960s, Conn worked closely with Phil McShane and others in reforming philosophy and theology courses at the Jesuit Milltown Institute, Dublin. In a 2003 article in the Journal of Macrodynamic Analysis reflecting on the first forty years of Phil McShane, Conn recalled the challenge and the difficulties they faced:

There was considerable discontent, and even cynicism, among those Jesuit students, whether Lonergan inspired or not, who looked on theology as something more than just a canonical prerequisite for ordination, or who had already achieved considerable success in some other field. Many of them simply went along with the system, mastering the matter presented and producing it, on request, at examination time; others registered a kind of protest by pursuing private interests as much as possible; those inspired by Lonergan tended increasingly to raise questions in class in a manner that challenged their professors’ authority, at times, unfortunately, with a crude appeal to the authority of Lonergan. We did not know then that we were living through the final years of a system that Lonergan later described as hopelessly antiquated but not yet demolished, that what was happening at Milltown was happening all over the world, and that the upheaval that was soon to come would affect much more than the traditional seminary courses in philosophy and theology.

Translator and interpreter

In the early 1970s, Conn undertook the long and arduous task of translating, from Latin into English, the first part of the first volume of Bernard Lonergan’s De Deo Trino. It was published in 1976 by Darton Longman & Todd as The Way to Nicea: The Dialectical Development of Trinitarian Theology and examined the dialectical process by which the dogma of the Trinity developed in the first four centuries. The Way to Nicea was the first translation of Lonergan’s Latin writings to be published.

Lonergan was always reluctant to have any of his Latin texts translated because he wrote them in Latin for a very specific audience, I.e., the students from 17 nations at the Gregorian, as well the Holy Office who had to approve all texts used at pontifical universities. He said that he would have written it “differently” in English or French.
Having read Conn’s translation of the first part of de Deo Trino he thought it excellent and agreed to have it published as The Way to Nicea.The book includes an important introduction by Conn in which he sets out to:

survey the content and indicate the structure of the whole two-volume work [De Deo Trino] of which the part translated constitutes one sixth,
Give an account of Lonergan’s academic courses on the Trinity, from 1945 to 1964, with some references to other work in progress at the time of these courses,
Give a brief history of Lonergan’s writings on the Trinity during his years in Rome culminating in the 1964 De Deo Trino,
Discuss the importance for Lonergan of trinitarian theology as the area in which (mainly) he worked out his method in theology
Comment on Lonergan’s enduring involvement with and contribution to trinitarian theology as a topic of the greatest importance within theology
Suggest some reasons why Lonergan has been so far unwilling to release for publication in translation any more than this one part of De Deo Trino and why he has released even as much as he has
Make a few comments on the tasks of translation itself.

Born: 05 February 1932, Merrion View Avenue, Merrion, Dublin City, County Dublin
Entered: 07 September 1953, St Mary's, Emo, County Laois
Ordained: 29 July 1965, Milltown Park, Dublin
Died: 18 November 2022,

Left Society of Jesus: 21 April 1974

Transcribed HIB to ZAM, 18 November 1965

Father, Daniel, was a commercial traveller and died in 1953. Mother was Anne (Nancy) (Rathbourne).

Youngest of three boys with one sister.

Educated at a preparatory school, then at St Vincent’s CBS, Glasnevin and then at Belvedere College SJ for five years. He then worked for a year at a wholesale drapery, whilst studying Quantity Surveying

Baptised at St Kevin’s, Harrington Street, 07/02/1932
Conformed at St Columba’s, ionar Road by Dr McQuaid of Dublin, 26/03/1942

1953-1955: St Mary's, Emo, Novitiate
1955-1957: at Laval France (FRA) studying
1957- 1959: St Stanislaus College, Tullabeg, Philosophy
1959-1962: at Chivuna, Monze, N Rhodesia - studying language Regency
1962-1963: Jesuitenkollg, Innsbruck Austria (ASR) Theology
1963-1966: Milltown Park, Theology
1966-1967: Rathfarnham Castle, Tertianship
1967-1969: St Ignatius, Tottenham London (ANG) studying Tonga at University of London School of Oriental Studies
1969-1970: Canisius College, Chikuni, Zambia, teaching Chitonga and spiritual work at Chivuna
1970-1972: Charles Lwanga TTC, Chikuni, Zambia, teaching Chitonga and spiritual work at Chivuna
1972: The Presbytery, Linton Road, Barking, Essex, England preparing for a PhD in Tonga at School of Oriental and African Studies, Gower Street, London
1973: Abbey Road, St John’s Wood, London, England

Applied for laicisation in early January 1973 but withdrew this in late January 1973, seeking a “leave of absence” instead. Later in the year he reverted to the request for laicisation (August 1973) - then living at London House, Mecklenburgh Square, London.

Married Carolyn Ayling at St John the Evangelist, Islington, London, 17/07/1974

Address 2000: St Aloysius College, Upper Pitt Street, Milson’s Point, Sydney, New South Wales, Australia

Born: 15 January 1841, Upper Gloucester Street, Dublin, County Dublin
Entered: 04 August 1863, Milltown Park, Dublin
Ordained: 1873
Final Vows: 22 April 1878
Died: 1918

Left Society of Jesus: 1898; remained a priest

Education at Mr Breslin’s School, Sandymount, and Ratoath NS, and post Secondary at the National Model School, Dublin, Dundee Schoolo of Art, Leeds (Josephite) School of Art. Taugh for 3 years at the School of Design Dublin, whence he obtained a scholarship to the Dept of Sicnece and Art, London

by 1870 at Roehampton, England (ANG)) studying
by 1871 at home for health
by 1872 at Leuven Belgium (BELG) studying
by 1874 at St Beuno’s Wales (ANG) studying
by 1875 at St Wilfred’s Preston (ANG) working
by 1877 at Castres France (TOLO) making Tertianship
Early Australian Missioner 1877 (St Ignatius College, Roverciew, Sydney, NSW, Australia.

Born: 11 February 1837, County Cork
Entered: 13 September 1856, Beaumont, Berkshire, England - Angliae Province for HIB (ANG)
Ordained: 1868
Final Vows: 02 February 1872

Left Society of Jesus: 1883

1856-1857: St Acheul, Amiens (FRA), Novitiate
1958-1858: Beaumont Lodge, England, Novitiate
1858-1859: Stonyhurst England (ANG) Studying Philosophy
1859-1960: Clongowes Wood College - Regency
1860-1861: St Stanislaus College, Tullabeg, Regency
1861-1862: Stonyhurst England (ANG) Studying Philosophy
1862-1866: St Stanislaus College, Tullabeg, Regency
1866-1868: St Beuno’s Wales (ANG) studying Theology
1868-1870: St Stanislaus College, Tullabeg, Teaching
1870-1871: Drongen Belgium (BELG) making Tertianship
1871-1873: Clongowes Wood College SJ, Teaching
1873-1880: Milltown Park, Spiritual Exercises, and Chaplain at Incurables Hospital; 1875; Missions
1880-188: North Shore Parish, Sydney Australia

Went to the USA in 1883 after leaving.

BRENDAN JAMES to 1969, then CAULFIELD-JAMES;

Born: 05 February 1934, Shaw’s Building, Stamford Road, Singapore
Entered: 04 January 1953, St Mary's, Emo, County Laois
Ordained: 28 July 1966, Cathedral of the Good Shepherd, Singapore
Died: 02 March 2023, Armdale Court, Westcote Road, Reading, Berkshire, England

Left Society of Jesus: 30 July 1982

Father, Frank, was a teacher. Mother was Iris. Familt lived at Shaw’s Building, Stamford Road, Singapore

Only boy with two sisters.

Educated at for eight years in St Anthony’s Boys’ School, Singapore and then at Mungret College SJ for three years.

Baptised at Good Shepherd, Singapore, 15/02/1934
Conformed at Holy Family, Katong, Singapore, 09/01/1944

1953-1955: St Mary's, Emo, Novitiate
1955-1957: Rathfarnham Castle, Juniorate
1957-1960: St Stanislaus College, Tullabeg, Philosophy
1960-1963: Wah Yan Kowloon, Hong Kong - Regency teaching
1963-1967 at Canisius Pymble NSW, Australia (ASL) Studying
1968-1969: Auriesville NY, USA, Tertianship
1969-1970: Kingsmead Hall, Singapore, working
1970-1971: St Ignatius College Riverview, Sydney, Australia, Teaching
1971-1973: St Francis Xavier’s, MacKenzie Street, Lawrence Bay, NSW, Teaching
1973-1983: Xavier College, Melbourne, Teaching
1983-1984: c/o Jesuit Missions, Gardiner Street, Dublin, Sabbatical
1984-1987: Xavier College, Melbourne, Teaching
1987-1989: Lawson, NSW, Australia
1889-1991: c/o Provincial Curia, Power Street, Hawthorn, Victoria
1991-1998: c/o Armadale Court, Westcote Road, Reading, Berkshire, England

https://mas-jesuits.org/past-jesuits/former-father-brendan-john-caulfield-james-sj/

Born: 5 February 1934
Entered: December 1952
Ordained: 16 January 1966
Dismissed: 30 July 1998
Died: ?

Father Brendan was a Eurasian and a native of Singapore. His father, Frank James, had been a very well-known teacher at St Joseph’s Institution. He received his early education at St Anthony’s Boys’ School. At the age of 15, his father sent him to study at Mungret College in Limerick, Ireland and entered the Irish Province of the Jesuits in 1951.

He studied literature at University College, Dublin and philosophy at St Stanislaus’ College, Tullamore. He was first sent to Hong Kong in 1961 and to Australia in 1963 for his theological studies at Pymble.

He returned to Singapore to complete his studies and final training for his ordination to priesthood. These would have both taken place at the Church of St Ignatius Church, had it not been suggested that the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd would be more appropriate. The reasons given were that his parents came from that parish and his father, Frank James, had been a teacher at St Joseph’s Institution across the road.

Thus Fr James was ordained by Archbishop Michael Olcomendy on 16 January 1966 at the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd – the first Jesuit to be ordained in Singapore. The next evening, Fr James celebrated mass at St Ignatius Church, followed by a Chinese dinner at Kingsmead Hall, hosted by his parents and the Jesuit community for 130 guests.

After completing his theology studies in Australia, he went to New York for further training and studies before returning to Singapore in 1968. Fr James stayed a year, during which he was very much involved in the folk mass choir that introduced “guitar liturgy” to one of the Sunday masses.

He eventually moved to Australia where he taught and engaged in pastoral work, as well as did post-graduate studies. While there, he left the Jesuit community and eventually settled in England where he lived with his mother.

Reference:
MAS Rewrite by Fr Frank Doyle, SJ
Anniversary Book: 50 years of the parish of the Church of St Ignatius, 2012

https://tributes.theage.com.au/obituaries/475478/brendan-joseph-caulfield-james?r=https://tributes.theage.com.au/obituaries/theage-au/

CAULFIELD-James
Brendan Joseph

Died peacefully at home in Reading UK on 2 March aged 89 years. Previously residing in Melbourne and Sydney.

Sadly missed and loved by many.

https://www.greenspirit.org.uk/blog3/category/obituaries/

Brendan Caulfield James Remembered
I knew Brendan for over 20 years, first meeting him at GreenSpirit events in the early noughties. It was in the early days of GreenSpirit, in the 1990’s, when it was called “The Association for Creation Spirituality” as inspired by Matthew Fox that he became involved. Indeed, Creation Spirituality continued to be an important part of his outlook throughout his later life.

Brendan regularly came to GreenSpirit events such as annual gatherings and walking retreats. He contributed an article to the flagship GreenSpirit book “What is Green Spirituality?” and to the GreenSpirit magazine with an article on the Cosmic Christ which you can read here. Both of these articles describe his deep spiritual journey and show his commitment to a relevant spirituality for our time.

More than this, Brendan founded the GreenSpirit Reading group. Under his guidance, the group thrived and I remember hearing how he connected with people in the group and encouraged them. He also spent time in Australia with his partner Catherine; even though he was on the other side of the world, he continued his connection with GreenSpirit, sharing the GreenSpirit magazine in the centres that he and Catherine were involved with and linking up with the GreenSpirit Reading group through zoom.Through the conversations I had with Brendan, I found him to be deep, thoughtful, and committed to applying green spiritual ideas in his life.

Brendan – the world has been blessed by your gentle presence. Your star now shines in the cosmic sky and your warm and guiding presence continues to be with us all. Thank you.

Ian Mowll – March 2023

Reflections by GreenSpirit Members

So reassuring to know that Brendan’s guiding presence is with us. It’s like he is teaching me grief. He was so much a father-figure for me. His loss is so keenly mourned. May Brendan’s playfulness of spirit guide us always. Debbie Rabia

Although l am a fairly new member of GreenSpirit l was able to talk with Brendan at the most recent Gathering. He was a very interesting and wise person. Jenny Leslie

I am sorry to hear of Brendan’s passing. He was a delightful individual, and I enjoyed meeting him, and his humour on the 2022 walking retreat. He introduced us there to the poetry of the Australian Banjo Paterson. By one of those odd coincidences, before I reached home in Leicestershire on the Friday afternoon, I called into a village fete, Peatling Magna, to meet up with a friend. At the bric-a-brac sale there were two illustrated volumes of that poet, signed by the illustrator. I will remember Brendan with affection. Tony Mitchell

Sad to hear about Brendan. I enjoyed his calm and gentle presence. Last time I saw him was at the annual gathering last year, only a few months ago. After I’d told the story about when my daughter drew a picture of what was happening to me the other side of the world he said it was an amazing story. When I said it was too amazing to be a coincidence he just said “Maybe there are no coincidences”. That will stay with me. Piers Warren

I am so very sad to hear about Brendan. I loved his companionship on the walks. His humour! When he wrote that hilarious poem about our quirky diet requirements and we all fell about. I met up with him and Catherine in Central London before they went to Australia. We were standing in a very packed tube train when he announced that he and Catherine were getting married and that they had just bought a ring. It was a terribly moving and memorable moment. That was the last time I saw him and I always missed him and Catherine on the walks that followed. Remembered with love and warmth, Ruth Meyers

I’m so sad to hear of Brendan’s death. Alan and I met him first years ago at the Ascot GreenSpirit group started by Gordon Dunkerly and Anne Yarwood, two friends now also no longer with us. It was always good to meet him and Catherine at GreenSpirit events since then, especially when they came to visit Avebury with us. I really enjoyed our session on the tin whistle at the last Annual Gathering – so good to see his enthusiasm for learning something new. He will be missed, and my loving thoughts are with Catherine at this time. Jenny Joyce.

I was sad to hear of Brendan’s death. I immensely valued his contribution to GreenSpirit – both for the Reading Group and our wider community, which will be greatly missed. With Brendan, I found a sense of spirituality freely shared. Helena Kettleborough

Eulogy written and delivered by Brendan’s Partner – Catherine

How to begin to do justice to such a long and eventful life? This is the challenge I face. I am aware that almost everyone who is here today and who will be watching Brendan’s funeral service later, has known him longer than me. Therefore, I ask you to forgive any inaccuracies or omissions in this account of Brendan’s life.

Brendan was born on 5th February 1934 in Singapore. The fact that he was 89 years old when he died has surprised many. He didn’t advertise his age and always looked much younger than his years. Brendan’s parents Frank and Iris, were part of the close knit Eurasian community in Singapore. During Brendan’s early years the family lived in Sandy Lane Katong, close to his maternal grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. Frank and Iris were both teachers and as was the custom, Brendan’s early childhood was supervised by an amah. He reminisced fondly of that time, playing with his two sisters Noreen and Moira and his cousins, and climbing the many tropical fruit trees in his grandparent’s compound. All this changed on 8 December 1941 when Japan attacked Singapore. In recollecting this time, Brendan wrote:

“I woke up bawling my head off. Amah was cradling me in her arms, trying to calm me down. Outside I could hear the sound of exploding bombs that had woken me up as if in a bad dream. The Japanese Airforce was attacking the civilian airport at Kallang, near where we lived.”

Unlike many families during the Japanese occupation, the James’s were spared internment. When the schools reopened, the Japanese language had become part of the curriculum and one of Brendan’s party pieces in later life was to give a rendition of the Japanese national anthem. When the Japanese surrendered on 12 September 1945, Brendan was watching on with one of his uncles.

When he was fifteen, Brendan’s father sent him to a boarding school in Limerick, Ireland. The school was run by the Jesuits and when Brendan completed his education in 1953, he felt called to join the Order. His Jesuit training began with two years novitiate. This was an ascetic time of testing, removed from a world devoid of Jesuit relationships, radio, newspapers and secular books. He was deeply influenced by his Master of Novices, who instilled in Brendan an appreciation of art. Following his Novitiate, Brendan studied philosophy and also gained an Arts degree. After eleven years in Ireland he was posted to Hong Kong, where he taught at Yah Yan College for two years. In 1963 Brendan moved to Australia where he spent four years studying theology in Sydney. At the end of the third year he was ordained in Singapore, the first Jesuit to have been ordained in Singapore or Malaya.

Returning to Australia, Brendan’s passion was in pastoral work in the parishes where he served. Brendan loved people and was able to strike up a conversation with complete strangers and find a common bond. Despite this his Jesuit superiors steered him into teaching and he gained a BEd degree. In Sydney he taught at St Ignatius College, Riverview, and served in the parish at Lavender Bay before moving to Hawthorne in Melbourne. During this time he also took further studies in the United States. He always took a keen interest in music and started music groups in all the parishes where he served.

It was while Brendan was teaching at Xavier College in Melbourne, that he met Joe and Rita Camilleri, who were establishing a branch of the peace organisation Pax Christi in Victoria. Through this encounter, Brendan became an advocate for peace, at various times taking part in peace rallies and anti-nuclear demonstrations.

In 1980, whilst serving in a Melbourne parish, Brendan was offered a sabbatical and travelled to Chicago to participate in a course in mysticism, followed by further study for a Masters Degree. His teachers included Thomas Berry, Brian Swimme and Matthew Fox, pioneers of Creation Spirituality. This proved to be a turning point in Brendan’s spiritual life.

After his return to Melbourne, Brendan found himself persona non grata in his parish.
Of this time in Brendan’s life, Rita Camilleri recalls:

‘As a committed peace activist, Brendan worked hard to bring church people into the peace movement, at one stage producing a list of church leaders who were willing to sign their names and declare their commitment to peace. Brendan wanted to work in the peace orbit in the 1980s during the days of the Movement Against Uranium Mining and People for Nuclear Disarmament, but his Jesuit superiors couldn’t allow that.’

His ex-Jesuit friends have written:
‘Brendan was a pilgrim in search of authentic spiritual and socially responsible day to day living. The road less travelled is often rockier and less formed than the well- worn popular highway. Unsurprisingly, Brendan’s complexity did not always mesh well with Jesuit orthodoxy of the day.
Brendan had a naivety in regard to power and authority. He was not careerist and often mistakenly thought religious and other authorities were driven by the warmth, simplicity and compassion he himself felt for people. He was ambitious; not for himself but for humanity and our planet.’

During this hiatus, Brendan lived with Joe and Rita Camilleri and began teaching in Australian state schools. He reconnected with the Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament and joined the Anti-Uranium mining movement’s protest camp at Roxby Downs.

When he was in Chicago, Brendan had started consulting a Jungian analyst, a practice he continued after his return to Melbourne. His analyst, John Nelson, invited Brendan to join a new venture in the Blue Mountains, where he stayed for three years. The Community of Living Water was based on Stanislaus Groff’s Holotropic Breath work and attracted people from many different alternative disciplines and traditions. Brendan reflecting on this time wrote, ‘My boundaries have never been so stretched before. Friends refer to my time there as weird. But I would not have missed it for the world.’

In 1987 Brendan left the Blue Mountains and travelled to the UK for his mother’s 80th birthday celebrations. Afterwards he stayed on in the UK. It was whilst staying with his niece Miriam in London that he gravitated towards St James church Piccadilly, which was a centre for Creation Spirituality at that time, and the catalyst for the organisation which became GreenSpirit. Brendan embraced GreenSpirit. He served on its council, and the various National GreenSpirit gatherings became a feature of his year. In 2000 he started a local group in Reading.

Now living in his mother’s home in Reading, Brendan forged a new life in the UK. He taught in many high schools in Reading and the surrounding area. Towards the end of Brendan’s teaching career the head teacher of a primary school asked him to cover a class for one term. He enjoyed this experience so much that he undertook additional training to move into primary education. In his leisure time he enjoyed nothing more than walking in the countryside. A lifelong learner he attended numerous workshops and courses, immersing himself in each new subject he tackled. Brendan was a keen follower of sport, especially rugby, cricket and Aussie rules football. He would often announce that he had an appointment in the town on Saturday afternoon, which was shorthand for ‘I am going to watch a rugby match at O’Neill’s’. The last time he opened his computer was to check the rugby scores. Brendan was a fun loving person. On one occasion whilst studying in Chicago he turned up at lunch under the guise of Bishop Papadopolis completely convincing the poor housekeeper. GreenSpirit member Chris Holmes recalls: ‘I was struck by Brendan’s great sense of humour. He could be incredibly funny and we had a good laugh in YHA dormitories’. Brendan also liked acting and was cast for a Barry Humphries film, which unfortunately was never made.

In 1990 Brendan joined a peace pilgrimage led by Bruce Kent from Vezelay to Geneva. Over the following three years Brendan spent his summer holidays volunteering at the hostel in Vezeley where the peace pilgrimage began, brushing up his French whilst catering to the needs of guests.

Back at home Brendan continued his activism recalling:

‘My mother lives near two Atomic Weapons Establishments, one manufactures warheads, the other attaches them to missiles. The finished product is then transported to Faslane in Scotland, by heavily armed convoys, to be deployed in British nuclear submarines. I join Nukewatch, a citizen’s organization that monitors the movements of these convoys on their way north. One of my weekly tasks is to climb a tree overlooking the compound where convoys assemble, then report their movements. I also become involved in the activities of Amnesty International, Greenpeace, CND and the Newbury bypass protest.’

Following his retirement Brendan’s life was no less active, taking on several volunteering commitments including the Fairtrade shop in Reading, the mobile True Food market and gardening at Braziers Park community. He was also a marshal at Reading football club. During this time his activism became more focused on the environment and climate change.

It was in 2006 that Brendan developed serious depression and was hospitalised for three months. Although he was desperately ill, he referred to that time as something he had to go through. He viewed all his life experiences good or bad without regret, but as part of life’s rich tapestry and with a lesson to learn. After his discharge from hospital he applied himself to making a full recovery. Within a year and against medical advice he was no longer taking medication and never relapsed. Perhaps because of his Jesuit training, Brendan was always highly disciplined. He was committed to helping himself, not relying on others to do it for him.

Brendan and I met through GreenSpirit. Having recently moved into the West Reading area close to where Brendan lived, and in true Brendan style, he befriended me. In 2010 we had the opportunity to volunteer at a Quaker centre in Melbourne. As one of his teaching colleagues remarked: ‘Brendan was always ecumenical’. This was the beginning of several years spent in Australia, volunteering, housesitting and travelling as well as catching up with Brendan’s many family members and friends. It was whilst walking around Uluru that he proposed and we finally married in 2017. When most 80 year olds are taking it easy, Brendan was travelling around Australia in a 12 year old Hyundai sports wagon, exploring outback Australia, bush camping with a group of young anarchists and grappling with a possum in the middle of the night. When our last and third assignment at the Australian Quaker Study Centre finished, we returned to Melbourne to stay with Joe and Rita Camilleri until we could return to the UK. Due to the pandemic and other factors we were there for two and a half years finally returning to Reading in May last year.

Brendan’s life was long and well lived. He valued family highly and kept in touch with his very extensive extended family across four continents. The many tributes to him reflect on his gentleness, calmness and loving and spiritual presence. Brendan saw everything in our universe as a manifestation of the divine and believed that all creation is sacred.

Rita Camilleri has written that Brendan ‘was an inspiration to many, always humble, and with a deep insight into humanity’s intimate and spiritual place in the Cosmos.’

His ex- Jesuit friends have written:
‘Brendan was known to his friends as ‘The Prince’. Not because of his grandfather’s contribution to the court and king of Siam to whom he taught English. But because of Brendan’s gentle and gracious demeanor.’

In 2008 Brendan and I made the pilgrimage walk to Santiago de Compostela. At one of the albergues in which we stayed, the proprietor was bemoaning to us the bad behaviour of some pilgrims. A notice on the wall read: tourists are demanding, pilgrims are gracious.

Above everything, Brendan was always gracious. He was a true pilgrim and an inspiration to us all.

Something in Common
by Brendan Caulfield James

“You have nothing in common with me”,

I hear you say.

But hold on a moment.

Here’s a thought.

In a few, short years,

We will both die, our bodies decay

and mingle with the earth

from whence they emerged.

The Liturgy of Ash Wednesday reminds us,

“Memento homo quia pulvis es

et in pulverem reverteris!”

Remember you are dust – stardust in fact –

and unto stardust you shall return.

There to host the myriad creatures

who work the soil,

grow our food,

colour our landscapes,

endow them with beauty,

fill us with awe,

engage, inspire and enthral!

But now, I’m getting carried away.

This is something we have in common,

a privileged link: www.interconnect.org.

that we can freely access…..

and isn’t it wonderful?

So don’t ever say

we have nothing in common.

Why then, do we spend a lifetime

denying our mutual bonds,

erecting borders,

insulating ourselves

and warmongering?

Perpetuating an adolescent yearning for independence

but never grasping adulthood’s secret:

the mystery and marvel

that is INTERDEPENDENCE?

“Awake”, Kabir cries out!

“Get up”, commands Jesus!

“Remember who you are”,

pleads Meister Eckhart!

Friends, heed the wisdom of our sages.

For a paradise on Earth awaits us

and is there for the embracing.

Born: 06 June 1920, May Street, Drumcondra, Dublin, County Dublin
Entered: 21 September 1939, St Stanislaus College, Tullabeg, County Offaly
Ordained: 31 July 1953, Milltown Park, Dublin
Final Vows: 02 February 1956, Rathfarnham Castle, Dublin
Died: 04 June 2012, Melbourne, New South Wales, Australia

Left Society of Jesus: 01 April 1974

Father, Thomas, was an official at Guinness Brewery. Mother was Bridget (Brennan).

Eldest of four, 2 boys and 2 girls.

Early education at a Convent School and then at O’Connells School, and one year at Belvedere College SJ

Baptised at St Agatha’s, North William Street, 18/06/1920
Confirmed at St Agatha’s, North William Street, by Dr Wall of Dublin, 21/03/1933

1939-1941: St Stanislaus College, Tullabeg, Novitiate
1941-1944: Rathfarnham Castle, Juniorate, UCD (BA)
1944-1947: St Stanislaus College, Tullabeg, Philosophy
1947-1950: Belvedere College SJ, Regency
1950-1954: Milltown Park, Theology
1954-1955: Rathfarnham Castle, Tertianship
1955-1962: College of Commerce, Rathmines, Chaplain
1962-1967: Loyola, Eglinton Road, Provincial Secretariat
1967-1968: Canisius College, Pymble, Australia, giving the Exercixes
1968-1969 St Agnes San Francisco CA, USA (CAL) working
1969-1970: Hawthorn Melbourne, Australia (ASL)
1970-1972: Milltown Park, Exercises
19721973: Leave of Absence
Address 2000: Spes Nostra, Church Road, Binstead, Isle of Wight, England

Worked as a Counsellor for St Patrick’s Hospital, James’s Street, Dublin at St Edmundsbury, Lucan

Address 1972, Rockfield Avenue, Perrystown, Dublin; 1973, St Lawrence Court, St Lawrence Road, Clontarf
Address 1987: Taney Rise, Dublin then Church Road, Binstead, Isle of Wight
Address 2000: Spes Nostra, Church Road, Binstead, Ryde, Isle of Wight, England

Interfuse No 149 : Autumn 2012

THE MEMORY OF LESLIE BARBER

Pat Nolan

Earlier this year, when I visited with Leslie in Melbourne, he asked me to speak at his funeral Mass. Alas, I could not be there, so a friend, John Little, who spoke the eulogy, included this personal testimony for me. I loved Leslie. Words defy a description of how much I shall miss him.

Leslie Barber had a long, sustained and positive influence on my life and on the life of my dear wife Carmel. Carmel and I would sometimes say, “Leslie saved our marriage!” To be precise, this is not meant to convey that our marriage was in deep trouble when we first met dear Leslie in 1971. What Leslie did was to show us, and many others, how to be a more mature married couple in the Ireland of the 1970s. I have since described Leslie's intervention as “introducing us to our feelings”.

Suppression of feelings was part and parcel of that Ireland of almost two generations ago. Leslie, as the Jesuit Retreat Director at Milltown Park in Dublin, ran week-end -retreat/seminars for young married couples which he titled "Hope-Ins" (the name influenced, no doubt, by his sojourn in California in the late 1960s). In these sessions he set out to legitimise our feelings for us, to get us in touch with our own stories in an honest, transparent fashion and then, when we felt the time was right and we were comfortable, to share the appropriate parts of our stories with others. He introduced us to the concept of the growth of trust in a group and how that would both facilitate our sharing while at the same time, and through this process, enable us to take ownership of our psychological history, our current state and, subsequently, our futures. For these reasons the primary sentiment I have towards Leslie is one of profound gratitude for such an everlasting gift. Thank you, Leslie!

Leslie Barber was a free spirit, which is why I loved him. He had a reverence for and an appreciation of the word in all of its purity and in the many manifestations of its utterance; poetry, cadence, metaphor and rhythm in relation to words were really important to him. He loved the sounds of words and never tired of repeating that love. He deeply mourned the apparent “passing of the King James Bible”. For Leslie, the word of God was primarily transmitted through sound and then through cadence and metaphor. In that sense, to present Leslie Barber as counter-cultural is an under-statement.

We have a saying in Ireland to describe someone as, “having a way with words”. Leslie Barber personified that saying. Words for him were like precious jewels and he did not wish to waste any of them; he was always careful and most deliberate in his choice of words. To describe Leslie as a free spirit is also to suggest that he was something of a “one-off”; and he was. He certainly did not fit any particular mould or type. Inevitably, this can have painful consequences and Leslie was no stranger to those. The Jesuit Order, as a significantly effective worldwide faith institution operating at a number of levels in promoting the Kingdom of God, may be noted for embracing many diverse opinions within its ranks. It accommodated Leslie Barber, and had the privilege of his presence, for thirty-three years. Some of those years were painful for him, notably those leading up to his departure. Given his 'free character traits and his way of using words; it was only a matter of time before Leslie clashed with authority, which he managed to do on more than one continent!

Leslie left the Jesuits in 1972, a year after we met (there is no known connection between these two events!). In the few years immediately after his exit from the Order I witnessed him at his best.

The manner in which he dealt with such a fundamental change in the Fection of his life was just outstandingly courageous. He performed the most menial and the humblest of tasks in order to make a living. In adversity Leslie showed his true mettle. Of course, dear Patricia became the anchor of his life at this time and they married in 1974. They were an extraordinary couple. I am privileged to have had them as close friends for many years, especially since they went to Australia 2003.

Patricia has been a loving and devoted wife to Leslie over all hose years, meeting his every need with such great tenderness and Commitment. Theirs is a wonderful love story which mirrored all of those excellent qualities of a married relationship which Leslie spoke about to us young married couples at Milltown Park in Dublin all those years ago.

There is a sense in which I don't want to, and cannot, say good bye to Leslie. There is something permanent about his influence on me; a depth to it that I struggle to identify with words. It is as if when I strip away all the foibles, the mannerisms, the human failings and the unusual characteristics, with Leslie I am left with this beautiful shining gem of integrity, of honesty, a transparent naivety, an attractive vulnerability, a certain stillness and silence at his core that was - maybe – the image, the likeness of God?
Requiescat in Pace

Interfuse No 149 : Autumn 2012

AN APPRECIATION OF LESLIE BARBER

Colm Brophy

In 1966, as juniors, Leslie gave us a triduum. He began one talk on a drowsy afternoon - when we were more interested in eating food and playing football than what he might say – with an explosive quote from T.S. Eliot. He chopped it out with his inimitable diction: “After cake and tea and ices, let us force the moment to its crisis”. He followed this with a riveting story of lust, sensuality and frustrated feelings which made us sit up and take note like no one else had ever done.

Later, in 1972, Leslie led weekend retreats for teenagers in Tabor House with help from us theologians. He was ahead of his time. Before the term “emotional intelligence” was invented, before “mindfulness” was in vogue, before the senses' in Ignatian spirituality had blossomed, before the twentieth century had melted the heart into the head, he challenged “reason' as the only god of theology and the secular world. He threw the cultural revolution of the sixties onto our religious doorstep. His Tabor encounter groups were not in fact called retreats. He sharpened our spirits by not allowing us to fall into dead religious language. In preparing us (theologians) to facilitate our small encounter groups of five or six teenagers, he insisted again and again that the only question we were to ask in the group was, “what are you feeling RIGHT NOW?” Untrained and uncertain, we were quickly out of our depth with the powerful dynamic of such a question.

Leslie had the wonderful gift of awakening people from the dead. May he rest in peace and may he awake.