BRENDAN JAMES to 1969, then CAULFIELD-JAMES;

Born: 05 February 1934, Shaw’s Building, Stamford Road, Singapore
Entered: 04 January 1953, St Mary's, Emo, County Laois
Ordained: 28 July 1966, Cathedral of the Good Shepherd, Singapore
Died: 02 March 2023, Armdale Court, Westcote Road, Reading, Berkshire, England

Left Society of Jesus: 30 July 1982

Father, Frank, was a teacher. Mother was Iris. Familt lived at Shaw’s Building, Stamford Road, Singapore

Only boy with two sisters.

Educated at for eight years in St Anthony’s Boys’ School, Singapore and then at Mungret College SJ for three years.

Baptised at Good Shepherd, Singapore, 15/02/1934
Conformed at Holy Family, Katong, Singapore, 09/01/1944

1953-1955: St Mary's, Emo, Novitiate
1955-1957: Rathfarnham Castle, Juniorate
1957-1960: St Stanislaus College, Tullabeg, Philosophy
1960-1963: Wah Yan Kowloon, Hong Kong - Regency teaching
1963-1967 at Canisius Pymble NSW, Australia (ASL) Studying
1968-1969: Auriesville NY, USA, Tertianship
1969-1970: Kingsmead Hall, Singapore, working
1970-1971: St Ignatius College Riverview, Sydney, Australia, Teaching
1971-1973: St Francis Xavier’s, MacKenzie Street, Lawrence Bay, NSW, Teaching
1973-1983: Xavier College, Melbourne, Teaching
1983-1984: c/o Jesuit Missions, Gardiner Street, Dublin, Sabbatical
1984-1987: Xavier College, Melbourne, Teaching
1987-1989: Lawson, NSW, Australia
1889-1991: c/o Provincial Curia, Power Street, Hawthorn, Victoria
1991-1998: c/o Armadale Court, Westcote Road, Reading, Berkshire, England

https://mas-jesuits.org/past-jesuits/former-father-brendan-john-caulfield-james-sj/

Born: 5 February 1934
Entered: December 1952
Ordained: 16 January 1966
Dismissed: 30 July 1998
Died: ?

Father Brendan was a Eurasian and a native of Singapore. His father, Frank James, had been a very well-known teacher at St Joseph’s Institution. He received his early education at St Anthony’s Boys’ School. At the age of 15, his father sent him to study at Mungret College in Limerick, Ireland and entered the Irish Province of the Jesuits in 1951.

He studied literature at University College, Dublin and philosophy at St Stanislaus’ College, Tullamore. He was first sent to Hong Kong in 1961 and to Australia in 1963 for his theological studies at Pymble.

He returned to Singapore to complete his studies and final training for his ordination to priesthood. These would have both taken place at the Church of St Ignatius Church, had it not been suggested that the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd would be more appropriate. The reasons given were that his parents came from that parish and his father, Frank James, had been a teacher at St Joseph’s Institution across the road.

Thus Fr James was ordained by Archbishop Michael Olcomendy on 16 January 1966 at the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd – the first Jesuit to be ordained in Singapore. The next evening, Fr James celebrated mass at St Ignatius Church, followed by a Chinese dinner at Kingsmead Hall, hosted by his parents and the Jesuit community for 130 guests.

After completing his theology studies in Australia, he went to New York for further training and studies before returning to Singapore in 1968. Fr James stayed a year, during which he was very much involved in the folk mass choir that introduced “guitar liturgy” to one of the Sunday masses.

He eventually moved to Australia where he taught and engaged in pastoral work, as well as did post-graduate studies. While there, he left the Jesuit community and eventually settled in England where he lived with his mother.

Reference:
MAS Rewrite by Fr Frank Doyle, SJ
Anniversary Book: 50 years of the parish of the Church of St Ignatius, 2012

https://tributes.theage.com.au/obituaries/475478/brendan-joseph-caulfield-james?r=https://tributes.theage.com.au/obituaries/theage-au/

CAULFIELD-James
Brendan Joseph

Died peacefully at home in Reading UK on 2 March aged 89 years. Previously residing in Melbourne and Sydney.

Sadly missed and loved by many.

https://www.greenspirit.org.uk/blog3/category/obituaries/

Brendan Caulfield James Remembered
I knew Brendan for over 20 years, first meeting him at GreenSpirit events in the early noughties. It was in the early days of GreenSpirit, in the 1990’s, when it was called “The Association for Creation Spirituality” as inspired by Matthew Fox that he became involved. Indeed, Creation Spirituality continued to be an important part of his outlook throughout his later life.

Brendan regularly came to GreenSpirit events such as annual gatherings and walking retreats. He contributed an article to the flagship GreenSpirit book “What is Green Spirituality?” and to the GreenSpirit magazine with an article on the Cosmic Christ which you can read here. Both of these articles describe his deep spiritual journey and show his commitment to a relevant spirituality for our time.

More than this, Brendan founded the GreenSpirit Reading group. Under his guidance, the group thrived and I remember hearing how he connected with people in the group and encouraged them. He also spent time in Australia with his partner Catherine; even though he was on the other side of the world, he continued his connection with GreenSpirit, sharing the GreenSpirit magazine in the centres that he and Catherine were involved with and linking up with the GreenSpirit Reading group through zoom.Through the conversations I had with Brendan, I found him to be deep, thoughtful, and committed to applying green spiritual ideas in his life.

Brendan – the world has been blessed by your gentle presence. Your star now shines in the cosmic sky and your warm and guiding presence continues to be with us all. Thank you.

Ian Mowll – March 2023

Reflections by GreenSpirit Members

So reassuring to know that Brendan’s guiding presence is with us. It’s like he is teaching me grief. He was so much a father-figure for me. His loss is so keenly mourned. May Brendan’s playfulness of spirit guide us always. Debbie Rabia

Although l am a fairly new member of GreenSpirit l was able to talk with Brendan at the most recent Gathering. He was a very interesting and wise person. Jenny Leslie

I am sorry to hear of Brendan’s passing. He was a delightful individual, and I enjoyed meeting him, and his humour on the 2022 walking retreat. He introduced us there to the poetry of the Australian Banjo Paterson. By one of those odd coincidences, before I reached home in Leicestershire on the Friday afternoon, I called into a village fete, Peatling Magna, to meet up with a friend. At the bric-a-brac sale there were two illustrated volumes of that poet, signed by the illustrator. I will remember Brendan with affection. Tony Mitchell

Sad to hear about Brendan. I enjoyed his calm and gentle presence. Last time I saw him was at the annual gathering last year, only a few months ago. After I’d told the story about when my daughter drew a picture of what was happening to me the other side of the world he said it was an amazing story. When I said it was too amazing to be a coincidence he just said “Maybe there are no coincidences”. That will stay with me. Piers Warren

I am so very sad to hear about Brendan. I loved his companionship on the walks. His humour! When he wrote that hilarious poem about our quirky diet requirements and we all fell about. I met up with him and Catherine in Central London before they went to Australia. We were standing in a very packed tube train when he announced that he and Catherine were getting married and that they had just bought a ring. It was a terribly moving and memorable moment. That was the last time I saw him and I always missed him and Catherine on the walks that followed. Remembered with love and warmth, Ruth Meyers

I’m so sad to hear of Brendan’s death. Alan and I met him first years ago at the Ascot GreenSpirit group started by Gordon Dunkerly and Anne Yarwood, two friends now also no longer with us. It was always good to meet him and Catherine at GreenSpirit events since then, especially when they came to visit Avebury with us. I really enjoyed our session on the tin whistle at the last Annual Gathering – so good to see his enthusiasm for learning something new. He will be missed, and my loving thoughts are with Catherine at this time. Jenny Joyce.

I was sad to hear of Brendan’s death. I immensely valued his contribution to GreenSpirit – both for the Reading Group and our wider community, which will be greatly missed. With Brendan, I found a sense of spirituality freely shared. Helena Kettleborough

Eulogy written and delivered by Brendan’s Partner – Catherine

How to begin to do justice to such a long and eventful life? This is the challenge I face. I am aware that almost everyone who is here today and who will be watching Brendan’s funeral service later, has known him longer than me. Therefore, I ask you to forgive any inaccuracies or omissions in this account of Brendan’s life.

Brendan was born on 5th February 1934 in Singapore. The fact that he was 89 years old when he died has surprised many. He didn’t advertise his age and always looked much younger than his years. Brendan’s parents Frank and Iris, were part of the close knit Eurasian community in Singapore. During Brendan’s early years the family lived in Sandy Lane Katong, close to his maternal grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. Frank and Iris were both teachers and as was the custom, Brendan’s early childhood was supervised by an amah. He reminisced fondly of that time, playing with his two sisters Noreen and Moira and his cousins, and climbing the many tropical fruit trees in his grandparent’s compound. All this changed on 8 December 1941 when Japan attacked Singapore. In recollecting this time, Brendan wrote:

“I woke up bawling my head off. Amah was cradling me in her arms, trying to calm me down. Outside I could hear the sound of exploding bombs that had woken me up as if in a bad dream. The Japanese Airforce was attacking the civilian airport at Kallang, near where we lived.”

Unlike many families during the Japanese occupation, the James’s were spared internment. When the schools reopened, the Japanese language had become part of the curriculum and one of Brendan’s party pieces in later life was to give a rendition of the Japanese national anthem. When the Japanese surrendered on 12 September 1945, Brendan was watching on with one of his uncles.

When he was fifteen, Brendan’s father sent him to a boarding school in Limerick, Ireland. The school was run by the Jesuits and when Brendan completed his education in 1953, he felt called to join the Order. His Jesuit training began with two years novitiate. This was an ascetic time of testing, removed from a world devoid of Jesuit relationships, radio, newspapers and secular books. He was deeply influenced by his Master of Novices, who instilled in Brendan an appreciation of art. Following his Novitiate, Brendan studied philosophy and also gained an Arts degree. After eleven years in Ireland he was posted to Hong Kong, where he taught at Yah Yan College for two years. In 1963 Brendan moved to Australia where he spent four years studying theology in Sydney. At the end of the third year he was ordained in Singapore, the first Jesuit to have been ordained in Singapore or Malaya.

Returning to Australia, Brendan’s passion was in pastoral work in the parishes where he served. Brendan loved people and was able to strike up a conversation with complete strangers and find a common bond. Despite this his Jesuit superiors steered him into teaching and he gained a BEd degree. In Sydney he taught at St Ignatius College, Riverview, and served in the parish at Lavender Bay before moving to Hawthorne in Melbourne. During this time he also took further studies in the United States. He always took a keen interest in music and started music groups in all the parishes where he served.

It was while Brendan was teaching at Xavier College in Melbourne, that he met Joe and Rita Camilleri, who were establishing a branch of the peace organisation Pax Christi in Victoria. Through this encounter, Brendan became an advocate for peace, at various times taking part in peace rallies and anti-nuclear demonstrations.

In 1980, whilst serving in a Melbourne parish, Brendan was offered a sabbatical and travelled to Chicago to participate in a course in mysticism, followed by further study for a Masters Degree. His teachers included Thomas Berry, Brian Swimme and Matthew Fox, pioneers of Creation Spirituality. This proved to be a turning point in Brendan’s spiritual life.

After his return to Melbourne, Brendan found himself persona non grata in his parish.
Of this time in Brendan’s life, Rita Camilleri recalls:

‘As a committed peace activist, Brendan worked hard to bring church people into the peace movement, at one stage producing a list of church leaders who were willing to sign their names and declare their commitment to peace. Brendan wanted to work in the peace orbit in the 1980s during the days of the Movement Against Uranium Mining and People for Nuclear Disarmament, but his Jesuit superiors couldn’t allow that.’

His ex-Jesuit friends have written:
‘Brendan was a pilgrim in search of authentic spiritual and socially responsible day to day living. The road less travelled is often rockier and less formed than the well- worn popular highway. Unsurprisingly, Brendan’s complexity did not always mesh well with Jesuit orthodoxy of the day.
Brendan had a naivety in regard to power and authority. He was not careerist and often mistakenly thought religious and other authorities were driven by the warmth, simplicity and compassion he himself felt for people. He was ambitious; not for himself but for humanity and our planet.’

During this hiatus, Brendan lived with Joe and Rita Camilleri and began teaching in Australian state schools. He reconnected with the Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament and joined the Anti-Uranium mining movement’s protest camp at Roxby Downs.

When he was in Chicago, Brendan had started consulting a Jungian analyst, a practice he continued after his return to Melbourne. His analyst, John Nelson, invited Brendan to join a new venture in the Blue Mountains, where he stayed for three years. The Community of Living Water was based on Stanislaus Groff’s Holotropic Breath work and attracted people from many different alternative disciplines and traditions. Brendan reflecting on this time wrote, ‘My boundaries have never been so stretched before. Friends refer to my time there as weird. But I would not have missed it for the world.’

In 1987 Brendan left the Blue Mountains and travelled to the UK for his mother’s 80th birthday celebrations. Afterwards he stayed on in the UK. It was whilst staying with his niece Miriam in London that he gravitated towards St James church Piccadilly, which was a centre for Creation Spirituality at that time, and the catalyst for the organisation which became GreenSpirit. Brendan embraced GreenSpirit. He served on its council, and the various National GreenSpirit gatherings became a feature of his year. In 2000 he started a local group in Reading.

Now living in his mother’s home in Reading, Brendan forged a new life in the UK. He taught in many high schools in Reading and the surrounding area. Towards the end of Brendan’s teaching career the head teacher of a primary school asked him to cover a class for one term. He enjoyed this experience so much that he undertook additional training to move into primary education. In his leisure time he enjoyed nothing more than walking in the countryside. A lifelong learner he attended numerous workshops and courses, immersing himself in each new subject he tackled. Brendan was a keen follower of sport, especially rugby, cricket and Aussie rules football. He would often announce that he had an appointment in the town on Saturday afternoon, which was shorthand for ‘I am going to watch a rugby match at O’Neill’s’. The last time he opened his computer was to check the rugby scores. Brendan was a fun loving person. On one occasion whilst studying in Chicago he turned up at lunch under the guise of Bishop Papadopolis completely convincing the poor housekeeper. GreenSpirit member Chris Holmes recalls: ‘I was struck by Brendan’s great sense of humour. He could be incredibly funny and we had a good laugh in YHA dormitories’. Brendan also liked acting and was cast for a Barry Humphries film, which unfortunately was never made.

In 1990 Brendan joined a peace pilgrimage led by Bruce Kent from Vezelay to Geneva. Over the following three years Brendan spent his summer holidays volunteering at the hostel in Vezeley where the peace pilgrimage began, brushing up his French whilst catering to the needs of guests.

Back at home Brendan continued his activism recalling:

‘My mother lives near two Atomic Weapons Establishments, one manufactures warheads, the other attaches them to missiles. The finished product is then transported to Faslane in Scotland, by heavily armed convoys, to be deployed in British nuclear submarines. I join Nukewatch, a citizen’s organization that monitors the movements of these convoys on their way north. One of my weekly tasks is to climb a tree overlooking the compound where convoys assemble, then report their movements. I also become involved in the activities of Amnesty International, Greenpeace, CND and the Newbury bypass protest.’

Following his retirement Brendan’s life was no less active, taking on several volunteering commitments including the Fairtrade shop in Reading, the mobile True Food market and gardening at Braziers Park community. He was also a marshal at Reading football club. During this time his activism became more focused on the environment and climate change.

It was in 2006 that Brendan developed serious depression and was hospitalised for three months. Although he was desperately ill, he referred to that time as something he had to go through. He viewed all his life experiences good or bad without regret, but as part of life’s rich tapestry and with a lesson to learn. After his discharge from hospital he applied himself to making a full recovery. Within a year and against medical advice he was no longer taking medication and never relapsed. Perhaps because of his Jesuit training, Brendan was always highly disciplined. He was committed to helping himself, not relying on others to do it for him.

Brendan and I met through GreenSpirit. Having recently moved into the West Reading area close to where Brendan lived, and in true Brendan style, he befriended me. In 2010 we had the opportunity to volunteer at a Quaker centre in Melbourne. As one of his teaching colleagues remarked: ‘Brendan was always ecumenical’. This was the beginning of several years spent in Australia, volunteering, housesitting and travelling as well as catching up with Brendan’s many family members and friends. It was whilst walking around Uluru that he proposed and we finally married in 2017. When most 80 year olds are taking it easy, Brendan was travelling around Australia in a 12 year old Hyundai sports wagon, exploring outback Australia, bush camping with a group of young anarchists and grappling with a possum in the middle of the night. When our last and third assignment at the Australian Quaker Study Centre finished, we returned to Melbourne to stay with Joe and Rita Camilleri until we could return to the UK. Due to the pandemic and other factors we were there for two and a half years finally returning to Reading in May last year.

Brendan’s life was long and well lived. He valued family highly and kept in touch with his very extensive extended family across four continents. The many tributes to him reflect on his gentleness, calmness and loving and spiritual presence. Brendan saw everything in our universe as a manifestation of the divine and believed that all creation is sacred.

Rita Camilleri has written that Brendan ‘was an inspiration to many, always humble, and with a deep insight into humanity’s intimate and spiritual place in the Cosmos.’

His ex- Jesuit friends have written:
‘Brendan was known to his friends as ‘The Prince’. Not because of his grandfather’s contribution to the court and king of Siam to whom he taught English. But because of Brendan’s gentle and gracious demeanor.’

In 2008 Brendan and I made the pilgrimage walk to Santiago de Compostela. At one of the albergues in which we stayed, the proprietor was bemoaning to us the bad behaviour of some pilgrims. A notice on the wall read: tourists are demanding, pilgrims are gracious.

Above everything, Brendan was always gracious. He was a true pilgrim and an inspiration to us all.

Something in Common
by Brendan Caulfield James

“You have nothing in common with me”,

I hear you say.

But hold on a moment.

Here’s a thought.

In a few, short years,

We will both die, our bodies decay

and mingle with the earth

from whence they emerged.

The Liturgy of Ash Wednesday reminds us,

“Memento homo quia pulvis es

et in pulverem reverteris!”

Remember you are dust – stardust in fact –

and unto stardust you shall return.

There to host the myriad creatures

who work the soil,

grow our food,

colour our landscapes,

endow them with beauty,

fill us with awe,

engage, inspire and enthral!

But now, I’m getting carried away.

This is something we have in common,

a privileged link: www.interconnect.org.

that we can freely access…..

and isn’t it wonderful?

So don’t ever say

we have nothing in common.

Why then, do we spend a lifetime

denying our mutual bonds,

erecting borders,

insulating ourselves

and warmongering?

Perpetuating an adolescent yearning for independence

but never grasping adulthood’s secret:

the mystery and marvel

that is INTERDEPENDENCE?

“Awake”, Kabir cries out!

“Get up”, commands Jesus!

“Remember who you are”,

pleads Meister Eckhart!

Friends, heed the wisdom of our sages.

For a paradise on Earth awaits us

and is there for the embracing.